Resolutions are a way of motivating yourself to change a habit. But if you aren’t ready to actually change your habit, especially a bad habit, the failure rate will be high. Another reason can be that we set unrealistic expectations and goals when we make our resolution.
Psychology professor Peter Herman calls it “the ‘false hope syndrome’, which means their resolution is significantly unrealistic and out of alignment with their internal view of themselves.” In other words, if you don’t really believe you can achieve your goal, then the positive affirmations won’t work.
Another aspect of failed resolutions comes from how you think it will change your entire life. You might think that losing weight or reducing your debts will change your life and when it doesn’t you become discouraged and go back to your old behaviors.
A resolution is basically a goal to change something. And in order to change you have to work at it and change your way of thinking about it.
In this guide you will find out why you fail at your resolutions, and ways to get back on track. You’ll also discover ways to incorporate healthy eating and exercise into your daily lifestyle.